Who are you? Please give us an overview of your cultural background/heritage?
Mibengè Maria Nsenduluka, who goes by Mibengè Maria, is a journalist, speaker and author of Own Your Greatness: 7 Principles To Overcome Tall Poppy Syndrome And Achieve Success. Born in Zambia and raised between Melbourne and Auckland, the ambitious Swinburne University graduate travelled to New York – where she cut her teeth in journalism.
After six years of “living the dream” (covering red carpets, international press junkets and celebrity interviews), she moved closer to home in Sydney where she published her first book – Own Your Greatness. Through her thought-provoking literary work, she has become a leading voice on tall poppy syndrome and cultural diversity in Australia and lives by the mantra “we rise by lifting others”.
Name one thing you really passionate about and why?
Tall poppy syndrome has become the driving force behind my message that when we uplift others, we uplift ourselves. Similarly, when we hinder others, we hinder ourselves.
How has living in a multicultural society shaped who you are as an individual?
Melbourne is truly one of the greatest cosmopolitan cities in the world. When you’re exposed to different cultures, you’re more prone to understanding. When I was growing up, I was the only black girl at school – which forced me to grow up quickly.
I valued cultural diversity from a young age because I understood the complexities of growing up different. I am now committed to empowering others who are different. Over the years, Melbourne has become more and more diverse, which is a delight to see.
What aspects of Australia’s multicultural society do you find fascinating?
Australia is one of the most culturally diverse nations in the world, yet this is not reflected in the media. There is so much beauty, talent and flair that goes unnoticed everyday – which is why so many great names have left to pursue their dreams overseas. I’m fascinated by why, we as a nation, love US and UK multiculturalism but don’t embrace our own. Multiculturalism is what makes this country so great.
What kind of experiences have you had in relating with people whose backgrounds differ from your own? Any key lessons from these experiences/encounters?
Living in New York for six years gave me the ability to assess cultural changes in Australia over a specific period of time. When my family moved to Australia in the ’80s, we were not always welcomed by others. Prior to moving abroad, I was often met with curiosity and at times, ignorance. Upon my return to Australia in 2016, my experiences were far more welcoming and enriching. In a nutshell, society has become much more accepting of other cultures over the years – but there’s still a long way to go – particularly when it comes to our native Australians.
In your opinion, how can multiculturalism be used as a vehicle for positive change in our society?
Being different is your power. Multiculturalism breeds creativity and talent. When you look at New York City, which is the epitome of a cosmopolitan city, you’re met with a sea of talent and people who are doing amazing things. There’s an incredible buzz in the air, that motivates you to be great. The moment Australia owns its multiculturalism and doesn’t shy away from presenting it on a public scale, the nation will become even greater.
What fun and interesting activities/events can we do/hold to aid in bridging the cultural gap thereby creating an inclusive society for all to enjoy?
Speed networking! I’ve attended this type of event before and it’s a fun and quick way to connect with people and exchange ideas.
Follow Mibengè: @mibengemaria
